Author Topic: QuestionAre guys born insensitive or simply pretending not to care? (Read 373 times)

peiwan246 · « **on:** November 30, 2011, 10:41:08 am »

Summer Romance - 4-6 May 2012 @ Suntec Singapore Level 3

I am sure every couple experience some misunderstanding sometimes, my hubby say things that hurt my feelings yet he doesn't seem to care at all. When I cry, he says I'm over reacting. GRRRRR! I have been wondering if he is tryin to be insensitive or if he is just pretending that he doesn't care.

Jennifer · « **Reply #1 on:** November 30, 2011, 02:09:51 pm »

I know many male friends who have no idea what they are talking too and don't think before they talk, they say whatever go with the flow. They usually dont mean anything but I never like this kind of people and I never hide about it.

ivyshin · « **Reply #2 on:** November 30, 2011, 04:30:30 pm »

Fightin and reuniting again is part of marriage. welcome to the club

Communication is always the key to improve one's relationship

Weise · « **Reply #3 on:** November 30, 2011, 05:55:28 pm »

There's a word that woman are sensitive animal! That's why you feel that Man are In-sensitive!

Olivia · « **Reply #4 on:** December 01, 2011, 09:51:02 am »

Its rare for one person to pretend to be bad as what you said, especially if the person is your partner

Its probably just his character, hot-tempered at times which caused the spurt of harmful words but deep inside is a sweet lovin beast. cheerup!

chris lim · « **Reply #5 on:** December 01, 2011, 01:40:06 pm »

Well, guys are not insensitive. Sometimes girls expect guys to be mind readers. Girls can also be too sensitive

Sarah2012 · « **Reply #6 on:** December 01, 2011, 04:02:18 pm »

We girls can sometimes read too much into things. But guys can be pretty clueless.

Betty · « **Reply #7 on:** December 02, 2011, 05:04:04 pm »

Sometimes guys are quire blur. But girls are also at fault, they are unable to articulate their feelings.

dreamzgal85 · « **Reply #8 on:** February 14, 2012, 04:15:36 pm »

i think it really takes time to fully understand each other. somemore, gals are very complicated creatures right? take for example, today is vday. on one hand, some gal will tell the guy she don't want flower, but on the other hand, she secretly hope the bf will give flowers.

queenyb · « **Reply #9 on:** February 24, 2012, 04:04:45 pm »

My guy tells me that the pressures of everyday life doesn't leave him much patience left to deal with our problems. He tries to be caring and loving, but says he needs it more than I do.
Maybe boys never do grow up and they need us to provide them with care and affection, while we need it too. But there are very few men that will admit they need affection.

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