Hi, so my bf (21) and I, have been together for 3.3 years. Two months ago I asked him for a break, and during that time via fb he told my dad's gf she was pretty and sexy, the next day that happened, he told me he wanted to see me, so I went to see him and he could bearly look at me, and then I was like what happened? and he started like: "please let me hug you, this might be the last time, I don't deserve you, I'm so sorry, etc", so I started to freak out so I told him what happened? and he told what had happened. Then like 2 weeks ago I get a fb friend request from a girl I had no idea who she was so I was about to send her a message and she had already sent me one, and she started saying like your boyfriend is telling me this and that, and sent me pictures, one was my boyfriend's six pack, and while I was asking questions the "girl" answered but contradicted herself like 20 times, and started saying that they went out 1 time, and the last thing she said was they had sex, but later I found out it was a fake fb account. I belived my bf that what that person said was not true, but how did she get that picture, if my bf doesn't have it on fb or anywhere else. So after the first thing that happened I becamse insecure, and after what the other "girl" said I became more insecure, even though it's not true, like it affected me. So like I became come "needy" and stuff. But after these things happened, my boyfriend's behavior towards me I feel it's different from when the day the told me about the first thing happened.
He tells me I shouldn't be insecure, because he loves me and only me, but his way of being is very strange, I don't know if it is because of what happened or why?. Obviously he still tells me he loves me, texts me, calls me, and wants to see me, but he takes a lot of time to answer back, he wants to hang out with his friends more, etc.
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